Concert recap…

and it’s a good one…

Sunday night, July 29th, we went to our first “big city” concert in Dallas at the Gexa Energy Pavilion.  There were a few snags.  The venue was outdoors and it was 105 degrees.  Ouch!  So we decided to go late, which was a bit disappointing.  We missed the first 3 bands.  There was only really one I was disappointed about.  Halestorm.  I found some great songs by them.  So when we arrived, the band Hellyeah was on the last part of their set.

Next up was Chevelle… I didn’t know them well, but I knew enough that I liked their music.  They played a great set, great music and good entertainment.

Then, next up, the feature band, and reason I went… Evanescence.  Like I mentioned, I have been a fan for a while and have been to one other of their concerts.  I think it’s safe to say I was expecting an experience like before.  It was not.

About 3 songs in, I am having a blast, really enjoying the show, and I stood up on the chair to get a few pictures and video.  There was my mistake.  Of course I got asked to step down (despite that there were several others around me up on the chair)… I’m short, so I just wanted to see.  But no biggie, I got down.  Things went awry from there.

A supervisor approached us (keep in mind that it’s loud and I am paying no attention to anything other than the stage)… he motioned me to follow him so I handed my camera to my husband and followed him thinking “really?, I got down… okay, what’s the big deal… and still seeing others on chairs around me.

He wanted my camera.  He said “where’s your camera?”… I said my husband has it, he said “Go get it and give it to me”… (Ummmm….??)  I said “Why?”.  He said “You can’t have that in here”… I said “Yes, I can, I called, and there are tons of people in here with cameras”… He was being very rude about it… but he got downright nasty with me…  To sum up… “Get your camera and give it to me now… go get it…(pushy, demanding, rude)… I went back down the isle and told my husband what he said… My husband said “no”.  Well, that’s the polite way to say what he said.

I went back and told the guy and so he went and got my husband and made him come out too.  While he stepped away, I tried talking to someone else to get the manager.  One song had passed.  The guy made us exit the venue to talk outside… but if you think he stopped yelling once outside the loud music… he didn’t.  We were not “giving him my camera”… he said he will check it at the office… I still said no… if they lose it, I’m out A LOT of money.  I offered many times to put it in my purse and still had no explanation why I was singled out.

This went on for half the concert.  And you know what it boiled down to?  My camera “looked too professional”.  That was their basis for the whole thing, the yelling, the verbal abuse, everything.  The manager was NO different.  It did not matter that I called ahead and checked at the gate if my camera was okay.  It didn’t matter that people inside had cameras and camera phones, it didn’t even matter to them that people were smoking marijuana two rows behind me and fighting several rows ahead.  It mattered that I had a camera that looked professional.

My husband finally relented and put it in the car.  I was fighting off a massive emotional breakdown, trying so hard not to cry, I was so upset at the way this had gone down, how I’d been yelled at, how I’d done everything right to be sure I followed the rules and that I had the camera out the entire previous set.  My husband tracked the original supervisor down, asked him about his experience as a police officer, military member, etc… (which was none) and told him that there was a better way to handle the situation and his wife shouldn’t have been treated like that.  The man put his hands on my husband’s shoulders and shoved him, then darted behind a secure gate.  I couldn’t believe it.  They were not security, they were bullies… just a bunch of jerks enforcing “rules” they don’t even understand.

Now… is my camera professional grade?  Yes and No.  I have a DSLR Canon 60D.  It’s an amazing camera with 18 mega pixels.  However, as instructed when I called, we were not allowed to bring interchangable lenses or even one lens with a “long zoom”… so I had a default basic lens attached.  It has HD video.  I like to shoot in RAW and get a small jpeg thumbnail so I can adjust out shadows and work out kinks in white balance.  I am still learning all about photography and once in a while, I get lucky.  My goal is to work towards a professional business in photography and I CAN do that with this camera.

So why all the fuss?  Why didn’t I just hand it over?  Well, obviously.  But it’s a principal, and I am stubborn.  First, I followed everything I was told.  Second, there were TONS of cameras inside, TONS and everyone was taking pictures and videos.  The difference was the appearance of my camera.  They thought I was “reproducing the event”… I wasn’t.  Not even close.  I even said… “I’m just a scrapbooker”.  Anything I photographed or took video was for me, not to reproduce, sell, or anything.

So I did a bit of comparison… I feel very strongly that my photos would have been good even on a typical point and shoot camera.  It’s not as much about the camera as it is the person behind it.  These days, point and shoot cameras come with high megapixels, long optical/digital zoom options, and HD video.  It’s time that concert venues get on board with this.  What is your actual concern?  Well, the artist doesn’t want the show reproduced.  The artist doesn’t want a full video made of the concert.  The artist doesn’t want “insert random needs here”…  I TOTALLY get it.  But there is a better way to do it.

So… we left.  I lost something special that day, I lost my ability to listen to my favorite band without a negative memory of verbal abuse, sweat, tears and my husband getting shoved by nothing more than a bully who doesn’t know how to do his job appropriately.  I was the LEAST of his worries in a venue at a rock concert.

On the other hand… thank you.  Thank you for looking at me and thinking my camera looks professional and that I look like someone with a professional camera taking professional images.  Here’s my favorite shots… and I am PROUD to have them.  The last one is my absolute favorite.

Here’s a video clip I took.  It’s hard to take a good video clip when you are rockin’ out… lol!  There are lots of other videos of the same event on You Tube… in fact, in one, I saw another, much more professional grade camera in the video with at least a 70-200 mm lens.

Thanks for letting me share.

xoxo-Love, Kat

I’m going to rock concert!

I’m a big fan of the band Evanescence.  I have been for several years now, several.  Since like 2003.  I heard their songs in the “Daredevil” movie with Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner.  That was around the time they met and now they are married with 3 kids!!  Anyway, I loved the songs by Evanescence in the move and bought the soundtrack.  Sometime later, I was SO lucky to get to go to the very LAST stop on their FALLEN tour, it must have been August 14, 2004.  They had Three Days Grace, Breaking Benjamin, and Seether.  Amy Lee and Shaun Morgan sang “Broken” on stage together.  It was SO COOL!!  Since it was the last stop, the bands pranked each other throughout each set.  Amy Lee dressed in a gorilla suit, and Seether dressed up in Amy Lee’s “ball gowns” and came out during her set… it was hilarious!!  At the end, there was a big bang and sprays of confetti.  I would have hated to be the custodian in charge of THAT clean up!  I bought a tee-shirt that I still have somewhere around here.  I knew all the words to the entire Fallen album and most of the words to the release in 2006, The Open Door.

I’ve been searching YouTube videos and here’s a preview of what I can probably expect tonight.  The new album is SUPER cool even tho almost all the original band members are now gone.  Amy Lee really is the “voice” of the band… and it’s an amazing voice, even live in concert!!

So I am going to get my Spotify going so I can hear the music of some of the other bands coming tonight, like Chevelle, Hellyeah, Halestorm, Candlebox and Aranda!

Here’s to hoping I survive the 105 degree heat!!  xoxo-Kat

I hate moving!

I know you get it.  We’ve all had to do it, but I just had to say out loud how much I hate moving!  We are in a big transition and have been now since January.  I started my new job in April and like it pretty well, but now we’ve had to face the actual moving.  We rented a small apartment.  It’s a one bedroom dual level so it’s at least giving us the impression we have more space.  I don’t mind it.  It’s “city style”… well, we live in a big city now… so that’s really different for me.  We went from living in population 80,000 to population 300,000+ and that’s in a “suburb”.

Over the next year, though, things will hopefully put us in place to build our house.  We have the area picked out and have settled on a style we both like.  We could be move in ready sometime next Spring.  Hopefully nothing else derails us, but we are going to prepare for the train to break down, because let’s face it, it usually does.  In the meantime, I am looking forward to the furniture deliveries coming this weekend like this cool looking (and comfy) red leather sofa!

Bubba dog Wil likes the new place… there’s lots more going on, lots to see and lots of people to meet.  I thought this pic came out kinda artsy… I really like it.

Sadie doesn’t seem to mind it either…. the stairs are a lot like home.

So we do have furniture as of this weekend.  A bed, a table, a chair, and the rest is coming soon.  There’s still SO much work to do.  My hubby took over so I could come back to work today.  I have a feeling we’ve got a couple more weekends left to do the remainder of the work.  Then we have to do it all again in about 8 months.

So that brings me back to my post… I hate moving!!

If you have any moving tips or small apartment living tips, LET ME KNOW!  It’s been ages since I’ve done this, so I am learning all over again.  I even have a few pinterest boards to help me out!!  THIS one is my favorite!

One last thing, be sure and grab my facebook freebie… it will only be up for about another week!  Okay, more later, xoxo, Kat

 

Eventful Mothers Day

I think to say I had an eventful Mother’s Day is probably the understatement of the century.  I spent the morning at home (see yesterday’s post)… it was nice.  I cuddled with my cats, and took my two girls to the groomer.  Professional groomers make life so much easier.  They do all the work for you.  It cost a pretty penny.

So I then packed up my old Jeep, loaded 2 of my 4 cockers up and my sister and left behind, sadly, my other 2 cocker kids for Mishou and Pops to come pick up later in the day.  I got lots of sad puppy eyes that really are hard to look it.  I probably shouldn’t have taken a picture, but I did, so I now have lasting guilt.  Isn’t this the saddest thing ever?  They don’t understand what’s going on.

So we were off, oh, well, first we had to turn around and go back for my wallet.  Thank goodness we did… you will see why later.  I dropped my sister off at my mom and dad’s and got to give my mom a quick hug and kiss and a gift and card.  My mom got a Lemon sugar bread candle.  Lemon is one of her fav scents.  Click on my mom’s picture to go read her blog.  She loves all things vintage!

So then I was on my way back to Texas with my other 2 cocker kids, Wil and Sadie… all seemed fine until this happened.

Ummm, yeah… I am really lucky.  Really lucky!  It was hot too.  We had roadside assistance come and put the donut on and I drove the next 26 miles to the nearest tire place.  By the time my tire was done, my husband was pulling in, he’d made the 3 hour drive in record time to meet me and drive the jeep the rest of the way in case another tire blew.  We need 3 more because they are all the same age and all older tires.

Here’s some more of our fun!  Wil loves riding in the jeep.  He rides very well.

My husband is awfully smiley.  He was just happy we were okay and to see the dogs for the first time in a long while.

Once I got through that whole mess, the drive back to the new home was uneventful.  It really wasn’t much of a mother’s day but my youngest sister did put this cute card on my facebook page.  I just love this, it’s so cute and cocker spaniels too!  <3

So we have no internet at home til tomorrow but I hope to get some scrapping or designing done so I can post some more “on topic” stuff for ya’ll.

xoxo – Kat

A trip to see the lights

I mentioned in my earlier post that my husband and I were married under the Lights of the Ozarks on the square.  We took a little visit recently and it was my first chance to get some photos with my Canon 60D camera.  I really enjoyed learning to take photos of Christmas lights.  There’s still a lot to learn but thanks to Kevin and Amanda‘s fantastic photography information, I got some really great shots that I just love!

We had a fantastic time.  The lights are so beautiful.  You can tell a huge difference in the photos from our wedding night compared to our new photos.  We took a carriage ride around the square (it’s tradition) and had a fantastic dinner at a cafe around the corner, complete with a margarita and dessert.  It was a great follow up to our anniversary date.  Merry Christmas!

(love) Kat

Happy 5th Anniversary

It was 5 years ago, on December 12, 2006, that my husband and I were married. After 11 years together, it was time.  We had a very special, yet small and simple wedding.  We were married under the Lights of the Ozarks.  It’s a tradition that lights up the square with hundreds of thousands of Christmas lights.  That year was the only year they had an “arch” of lights.  How fitting it was.  My husband dressed in his Air Force blues and I wore a solid white pantsuit with a draped white flow-y sweater.  My bouquet was fake.  We didn’t have a lot of money, in fact, we spent about 300 bucks on everything (minus the rings of course).

Every year, we celebrate our anniversary by visiting the lights and taking a carriage ride around the square, just like we did on our wedding night.  It’s very special.  It was raining yesterday so we will have to go back for the ride but we still stopped by the bakery and picked up a mini Christmas cake and two red velvet cupcakes.

You may notice the extra item in the photo… Yes, that’s my new iPhone 4S.  I was NOT expecting that!  My husband went into the kitchen and while I was taking photos, suddenly a phone was ringing.  It sounded vaguely like mine and turned out, it WAS mine, just not the “mine” I expected.  A text at the top said Happy Anniversary.  My husband, super sneaky filled with sugar and topped with a huge heart.  It was a very sweet thing for him to do.  I’d been wanting a new iPhone.  Mine was the 3G, so it seemed ancient.  Now I have a new friend, her name is Siri and if you ask her what she is doing tonight, she’ll tell you she’s “just thinking”.  She’s a hoot!

Happy Anniversary Scott!  xoxo

(hugs) Kat